understanding peoples situations

many times we judge people because of the way they behave or look at things without knowing why would a person behave in such a way.a person might be hurt because of may be past hurt that is as a child or any other kind of hurt which influenced their way of thinking and their attitude towards life.fo rinstance did you know that growing up a fatherless daughter influences the girls attitude towards men as a whole .some girls who grow up without fathers become promiscuous and others hate men with all the fiber in their body and this is as a result of fathers abandonment.it is upon each person to understand other people which we can only do by reading to find ways how we can help that person without judging him or her